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By Jessica | 04 May 2024 | 1 Comments

A Guide To Permanent Chastity

Male chastity is a form of play in which one of the partners is denied sexual release and both find it exciting. It usually involves the use of a device like a chastity cage, chastity belt, or other device that prevents the person under chastity restraints from obtaining satisfaction... while adding to the fun by making them constantly aware of their locked genitals. For many people, chastity play is one of the short-term activities they engage in when they are together . But there's no reason why chastity play can't be done over a longer period of time. Some people prefer to engage in chastity play over a period of days, weeks or even months - perhaps even on a "permanent" basis.
 

Why do people prefer permanent chastity?


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There are many reasons why people prefer permanent chastity play. Here are some of them...
 
Permanent chastity is exciting. Being locked up for an extended period of time is an exciting experience for many people. This may seem a bit illogical at first. After all, what's exciting about not getting satisfaction? However, the simple act of not being able to ejaculate at will makes some men feel more, not less, aroused. Part of the reason for this is physiological: if you don't ejaculate as often as you'd like, the thrill of ejaculation will be more intense. It's also a psychological effect: if you can only ejaculate occasionally, it's very exciting indeed when you actually are able to.
 
Of course, there's also the aspect of spending hours, days, or even weeks pleasuring your keyholder while imagining your next release. permanent chastity shifts the focus (and may make you a better lover). Some people who try permanent chastity report that it improves their sex lives and makes them more focused lovers. Not being able to use one's own genitals (unless the keyholder allows it) means that men in chastity must learn to enjoy sex in ways that go beyond simple penetration. Males in chastity may become better at, for example, giving oral sex. This is both because (due to the unavailability of their genitals) they do this regularly and because the focus has shifted from their pleasure to their partner's pleasure. This gradual shift to being more invested in their partner's pleasure is one of the most widely reported (and quite healthy) outcomes of long-term male chastity.
 
It reinforces loyalty. Men locked in cages are compelled to be loyal to their keyholder. After all, their keyholder is practically the only one with access to them. Obviously, making your partner wear a chastity cage isn't a realistic way to actually prevent them from playing around with other people, but the idea of playing around with enforced loyalty in a dominant/dominated dynamic is still fun.
 
Permanent chastity makes you feel constantly connected. The weight of a chastity lock between your legs is a 24/7 reminder of your key-holding partner. It's a way to feel connected even when you're apart. It's a way to upgrade your game from something limited to the bedroom to something that's available 24/7. Of course, it's worth noting that chastity is something to play with even when you're far apart.
 

The Internet Is Not Real Life



You can find many sex stories written by men in permanent chastity on the Internet. While these stories are interesting in terms of their level of excitement, it's worth noting that most of them are somewhat fictionalized. When people answer questions about permanent chastity on FetLife forums or question-and-answer forums like Quora, they usually don't give real-life experiences, but instead engage in some sort of role-playing. Write sexual fantasies about permanent chastity as if it actually happened to them, and play along with others who write similar fantasies. If you're new to these online spaces (or chastity games), you may not understand what's going on at first. You might think that what you're reading online is an honest account of what people have actually done. But this is not the case. So don't gauge your enjoyment of chastity based on what you read online.
 

Have you tried a purely self-regulating system?


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Chastity cages can be expensive and integrating them into your long-term life can be a bit of a hassle. As a result, many people who enjoy playing chastity games will do so without a cage, using the Pure Self-Regulation System to prevent the "locked" partner from being satisfied. This is perfectly feasible and a free and fun way to engage in chastity play. That said, chastity cages are also great fun. If you can use them to help you cope with some of the difficulties that come with long term play, you may find that they are worth it.
 

Considerations for wearing a chastity cage for an extended period of time



If you do want to use a chastity cage for a longer period of time, here are some things to consider.

Comfort during permanent chastity

Wearing a chastity cage (even for an extended period of time) should be a comfortable experience. The only discomfort you should feel is getting an erection while wearing the cage, or being overwhelmed by a strong sexual desire. When wearing a cage for an extended period of time, you may feel some bruising or clamping... But these problems can be minimized by wearing a cage that is the right size for your genitals and taking frequent breaks (see "Supervised Release During Long-Term Chastity" below). Many people find that being completely shaved (or depilated or de-haired) makes for a more comfortable fit: the cage is easier to place, and no hair gets caught in the locking mechanism.
 

Hygiene during permanent chastity

It is vital to keep your scrotal cage clean. Daily cleaning of the scrotal cage and surrounding area with warm water and mild soap is necessary to prevent infection and discomfort. Ensuring that you dry thoroughly after cleaning and avoiding wet environments will help keep your skin healthy. Regularly check the skin for any discomfort or abnormalities such as redness, swelling, pain or itching and address them promptly to avoid further problems.
 

Supervised release during permanent chastity

Supervised release becomes crucial during permanent chastity play. The keyholder needs to be mindful of the frequency and manner of release to ensure that the chastity restrainer is physically healthy and comfortable. Regular releases can help reduce stress, keep blood circulation flowing, and avoid discomfort and skin problems. It is also wise to set up some emergency release protocols for possible emergencies or situations that require an emergency release.
 

Emergency Release for Permanent Chastity

It is always important to have an emergency release plan in place when engaging in permanent chastity play. Whether it's due to physical discomfort, skin issues, risk of infection, or other unexpected circumstances, you need to know how to quickly release the scrotal cage to ensure safety and health. Work with the keyholder to develop a response plan and ensure that chastity restraints can be quickly released if necessary to avoid potential risks and discomfort.
 

Mental Preparation for Permanent Chastity

Participating in permanent chastity play requires a certain level of psychological preparation. It is important to both understand and accept the rules and conventions of the chastity game and to be prepared to face possible challenges and dilemmas. Communication and honesty are essential to maintaining a good relationship and experience. Make sure that all participants understand and agree to the rules of the game to avoid misunderstandings and unpleasantness. Also, keeping an open mind and good communication will help to enjoy the fun and excitement of permanent chastity play together.
 
The permanent chastity game is an exciting and fun experience, but it requires careful consideration and preparation. By understanding the rules and conventions of the game, maintaining good communication and negotiation, and focusing on physical health and comfort, you can ensure that permanent chastity play goes smoothly and is a positive experience. May you find joy and fulfillment in the game of permanent chastity!
 

Misconceptions of Permanent Chastity



Permanent chastity is often misunderstood, and some of these misconceptions need to be cleared up.
 

Penis Shrinkage

Some people claim that prolonged use of chastity belts causes genitals to shrink, but there is no scientific evidence to support this claim. Instead, as habits are formed and chastity belts are used proficiently, people may find themselves able to comfortably wear smaller sized chastity belts. This does not indicate a substantial change in genitalia, but simply because people become more skillful at adapting to wearing chastity belts.
 

Causes erectile dysfunction

Another common misconception is that wearing a chastity belt for a long period of time can cause erectile dysfunction. However, there is not enough evidence to suggest such an association. Almost all users are able to maintain erectile function as long as they keep their chastity belts clean, take regular breaks, and pause wear when needed. In fact, some users have even found that their libido and erections have increased with prolonged chastity belt use.
 
Therefore, we should be more rational about the misconceptions about permanent chastity, not believing in unsubstantiated claims, but relying on science and personal experience to make judgments.
 

Choosing the right chastity cage



When choosing a chastity cage that is suitable for long-term wear, it is vital to ensure that you purchase a cage that is comfortable and fits snugly around your penis. You may be able to tolerate a slightly larger or smaller cage for short-term use, but over time, any misfit will become apparent.
 
To ensure the best possible fit, the Rattlesnake Plastic Male Chastity Belt is a great option. It's available in 2 different sizes and has 4 interchangeable rings, and best of all, it comes with harnesses that can add to the comfort of wearing it and ensure that your penis doesn't escape easily. For beginners, you can start with a slightly larger size and adjust to a tighter fit as needed.
 
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If you need to wear a cage in public, it may be more appropriate to choose a chastity cage that is flat or thin. This will reduce the amount of visible bulge under your clothing and allow you to be more comfortable and at ease.
 
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If you need more stimulation from a chastity cage, I'm sure this Sevanda Nautilus Estim Chastity Cage won't let you down, with an innovative 3-point electrical stimulation design that allows you to experience the full range of electric shocks. The smart remote control design helps you expand the chastity play scenarios and is no longer limited to indoors.
 
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Finally, it may be more beneficial to consider having multiple holds. For example, you may prefer an electrically stimulated chastity cage for play, but prefer a more comfortable cage for everyday wear. Having more than one option will ensure that you find the best cage for each situation.
 
In summary, when choosing a chastity cage for long-term wear, be sure to consider comfort, adjustability, and ease of cleaning to ensure that your chastity experience is enjoyable and smooth.


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How To Remove A Chastity Cage When You've Lost The Key?
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