The history of pubic hair and its removal is fascinating. Have you noticed that most sexual deviants tend to completely shave off their pubic hair? Let Lockink guide readers in exploring the many reasons why pubic hair removal has become so popular, as well as the health pros and cons for and against it.
Everyone has their own view on pubic hair—or someone else’s pubic hair. Some people don’t care much (or have none at all), while others care a great deal. Let’s clear up a few things about pubic hair removal:
- Not everyone (whether curly or straight) removes their pubic hair.
- Many people enjoy thick, dense pubic hair.
- Not everyone who shaves or waxes wants to look prepubescent.
Not all people who remove pubic hair are women, although it is more common among them. Men also remove hair. I strongly support using my Brazilian wax, once you pry it from the cold, dead fingers of my beautician. But not everyone can handle hot wax on their most sensitive areas, and that’s okay.You can shave anytime, but be wary of stubble—it can itch like crazy. Or, forget the wax and razors, and just let it all hang out. Why do so many people seem to go bare while others keep their pubic hair? The answer is simple: we’re all individuals. But let’s take a closer look at our pubic hair.
The Joy of Pubic Hair Removal
While many people blame it on porn and the allure of smooth genitals for instant arousal, many of us remove our pubic hair, and that’s not the only reason. I started getting a Brazilian wax monthly when I was single, and the only sexual activity I was seeing was with my right hand. I hadn’t even watched porn at the time, and I didn’t care whether anyone ever saw my genitals.
I just liked the clean, smooth feeling. Pubic hair has its purpose, but I hated it. I’m not the girl with soft, silky pubic hair. No, mine was more like steel wool. For those thinking I did it to please a Dom, think again. It’s a nice bonus, but I started and continue doing it for myself. Yes, some Doms prefer their submissives to be hairless, but it’s not just about appearances. Removing pubic hair feels better when you play or have sex.
You can also see how flushed your skin becomes when you’re aroused or when your genitals are tortured by whips, clamps, or your Dom’s bare hand. It’s sexy, fun, and extremely stimulating, which might be the point. Your partner can touch every inch of your most sensitive areas. Personally, I experience better orgasms for a day or two after waxing, and oral sex feels amazing.
Reasons to Keep and Love Your Bush
Pubic hair removal isn’t for everyone. Some people love pubic hair (perhaps you have the kind of silky, soft pubic hair I’ve read about in erotic literature). Others don’t want to spend the money or effort to keep their pubic area bare. That’s fine too. If pubic hair removal is a hard limit for you, make sure your kinky partner knows this ahead of time. You can always change your mind later, but your boundaries should be respected.
There are legitimate health reasons to keep your pubic hair. First, pubic hair can prevent friction during sex. Sure, you might enjoy that sensation, but for some, it’s unpleasant. Additionally, pubic hair protects your skin from cuts and scrapes. Removing pubic hair can lead to bumps, rashes, and ingrown hairs, all of which need to be managed.
Unfortunately, having no pubic hair makes it easier to transmit STIs like herpes or genital warts. Ensure both you and your partner are tested, and continue regular testing if you have multiple partners.
Your Pubic Hair, Your Choice
As with everything we do in kink, there’s no right answer. If you and your partner enjoy the sweet sensation of bare skin against bare skin, go ahead and shave it all off. If you hate getting stray hairs stuck in your teeth while performing oral sex, see if they’re willing to wax it off. On the other hand, if you love your pubic hair and aren’t willing to part with it, then let it grow wild or give it a trim. We each do kink in our own way, including how we handle or remove our pubic hair.